Is he using you for sex. That being said, this does not mean that every guy out there is a user. Invite him out for a real date and see what his reaction is. Ball offers some examples: Don't think that you're different, or that these women don't know what they're talking about. Knowing the signs he just wants sex can help you avoid it altogether. Whatever it is, if you are doing all of the giving and he is doing all the taking, then you need to get out of that relationship. Does he try to hide things from you? While it is not always the case, these feelings can sometimes indicate that you are being used in your relationship. Or if he doesn't really contact you after a love making session. He only compliments your looks. And, if you're curious to learn more about your personal Horoscope in and what it says about your love relationships, career, investments and health in: Dates are pizza at your place.