How to have sex with a tall guy. There are wedge pillows specially designed for sex, but there are also regular wedge pillows that can do the trick just as well. Liked what you just read? Do you have a good couch or a bed with a headboard? As a small person, I am all too familiar with having my face stuck in an armpit or squashed against a nipple while trying to get down. E-mail to: Here are seven positions for tall partners: In a way, having huge height discrepancies can push some couples to expand their definitions of sex, which is something we could all benefit from anyways. So instead of focusing on the positions you have to go without because you happened to fall for a partner who's so much taller, focus on positions that you get to enjoy. Woman On Top.