First anal sex tops. So you've mastered the basics of anal sex, and now you're looking to take your skills to the next level.
Unlike the vagina, the anus is not self-lubricating, so you need to provide loads of moisture yourself.
If your man just tries to enter you without allowing you to first relax, then you're going to have a very painful time.
Some people say that having an orgasm before you try anal sex is a good way to get super relaxed.
And according to two gay guys I know, the correct way to do it is to have the girl on top and she can ease herself down and go at her own pace, and once that happens you can flip yourself over sexy semi nude girls he's on top now and then you can do whatever you want.
I didn't bleed well, at least not that I know of.
Many experts recommend starting off lying on your side and being spooned.
You'll find there are plenty of nerve endings on the outside, which means even the lightest of touches can feel pleasurable.
Also remember that condoms are another nonnegotiable when it comes to safe and sexy anal adventures, so be sure to stock up on contraceptives and a water-based lube before you embark on yours.
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So do whatever works for you to get yourself feeling fantastic.