Best anal sex position for women. Would it surprise you to learn that our women readers say anal sex is the number one move their partners ask them to try? Put a little bend in your knees to give a little extra movement in your hips. Meanwhile, your man will be behind you on his knees. Would love to know them! Now pass one of her legs through yours whilst still kneeling and then place her other leg over your shoulder so that her pelvis is raised. Domination Guide 5. Deep Impact is a classic legs-on-shoulders sex position that allows either of you to rub your clit or even use a sex toy during anal sex. Come out and do it again. Extensive Foreplay. But goodness! This one is hard to perform for the girl, because it burns her thighs but it feels amazing for you! These looks awesome! This is not general and cannot be taught.